We do find many people in our life and in our journey. Some are stamped as glorious moments of our life. Some of them remain as friend, some remain as strangers..... Another strange of life we find is that though sometime being very good friend, some people remain as strangers and among the crowd of those real strangers, some get settled in our life as a closest friend of our life....
It is not necessary that both party should share the same bond within each other because friendship or love is never about the business agreements or the final analysis of the yearly statement, because what we all share in friendship and love is the relation of emotions... We all may not be able to be in touch with all of our circles every day, the link of telepathy may not be existing with the every alternate people we share "hi...." but again we can't ignore the fact, we sometime cry in state of pain, though it may not have occurred within us, and we can laugh with our open heart even though happiness of someone is no way related in far and far with us... not virtue of only humanity, not for the sake of dignity, but may be because of these wonderful relation of emotions, love and friendship...!!!!
But the relation of love and friendship has never been the cake walk. Sometime, somewhere, the receiver or the giver mixes this pure solution with impurities and the most wonderful grace that mankind has ever received gets turned into biggest disaster of world. There has been always the discussion about criteria of what type of people deserves love and our friendship and who don’t?
All those theories of one contradicts with the other, but theology states, “even though we were sinners, god loved us and he has always been loving us whatever the form or state we are…!!! Then how can we human limit radius of these emotional relations? How can we judge the people without knowing their circumstances?
Someone loves us unconditionally; this doesn't mean we keep ignoring them. Someone loves us with no expectation; this doesn't mean we take them for granted. Few of the things occur in our life just for a reason, and might vanish unexplained sometime, but again, we should realize those instances are not the one we facing them for the last time…..
A friend will be happy if we keep them in our prayers, rather than we keep saying "I miss you and so on....." Sometime the biggest care also goes unexpressed as relation of mother and child no need of expression. May be sometime people need to know that they are being cared and loved, not because expression is everything…. It’s because that someone can also be the part of your life on the way you’ve decorated them. Sometime we make the fun of some people’s presence, sometime we take them for granted and sometime we never try to understand them…. But again, we must know sometime the biggest and biggest mountain can stumble and that relation may not be waiting you always….
Life is sometime tougher, sometime the toughest
But with small caring of someone, we can find the way simpler…
Yeah, one will find enough happiness in this life, but sometime, for a mistake whole life will be short enough to regret among self for those silly things…
Don’t wait for the time to improve the relation.
Don’t wait for the correct date to thank your loving people, who knows, if we will really be able to express in that time…!!!!
So this post is dedicated to every of my friends for making my life worth-living. Thanks for your stand by and your motivation which has been inspiration for me…
To every of my friend whom I am in touch with,
To every of those people who hold specialty in my life
To every of them for whom I hold special place,
I just want to say, “for whatever we share among each other, it has just left me speechless…..
My god be with you always….